Here's a picture Melody:

The copper colour is the z = 2x2 - 3y2 surface. The red blob is the point A = (2, 1, 5). The blue mesh is the plane tangential to the surface at A (z = 8x - 6y - 5).
The black line is the unit length vector lying in the tangential plane in the direction of steepest descent.
I took Bertie's solution for the vector in the horizontal plane, found where the end of this would meet the tangential plane, scaled the resulting vector from A to this point to be of unit length and plotted the black line to represent the unit vector in the tangential plane.
The black line goes from (2, 1, 5) to (1.92, 1.06, 4.01) (approximately).
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