CPhill,
thank you very very much!!..please note I posted this question again under my username, to be able to track in future, I tried to remove this post after I re-posted, but when I came back to try and remove this post, (I don't even know if it can be done)..I saw someone was busy compiling an answer. so I left it. please forgive me if I had broken any rules...
thank you so much for the answer!!