Thank you Heureka and thankyou anons for voicing your concerns.
If you want to learn effectively you MUST speak up. 
This is always a source of confusion. 
Firstly
$$\\-4^2=-1*4^2=-1*16=-16\\
$Where as $\\
(-4)^2=-4*-4=+16\\\\
$Now why is this so?$\\
consider\\
50-3^2=50-9=41\\
$ See how the minus sign DID NOT belong to the 3$\\
$If it did belong to the 3 then this would be how it had to be done$\\\\
50+(-3)^2=50+9=59 = 50+3^2\\\\$$
Now I do not think that anyone would think $$50+3^2$$ should equal $$50-3^2$$
so the minus sign cannot belong to the 3 