The diagonals of a parallelogram bisect each other
So this implies that
DH = HF and GH = HE
So
x + 3 = 3y rearrange as x - 3y = - 3 (1)
4x - 5 = 2y + 3 rearrange as 4x - 2y = 8 ⇒ 2x - y = 4 (2)
Multiply (1) by -2 and we have that
-2x + 6y = 6 add this to (2) and we get that
5y = 10 divide both sides by 2
y = 2
And using (1)
x - 3(2) = - 3
x - 6 = -3 add 6 to both sides
x = 3
So {x, y} = {3, 2)