Thanks, catmg!!!!!.....I wanted to try this one, as well
M -1 = men's hands that Mr. Li shook
M -1 = men's hands that Mr. Li shook
W -1 = women's hands that Mrs. Li shook
M = men's hands that Mrs. Li shook
So
(M - 1) / W = 3 ⇒ M - 1 = 3W ⇒ M = 3W + 1 (1)
M / (W -1) = 4 (2)
Sub (1) into (2)
(3W + 1) / (W - 1) = 4
3W + 1 = 4 (W - 1)
3W + 1 = 4W - 4
5 = W
3(5) + 1 = M = 16
M + W = 16 + 5 = 21 (just as catmg found !!!)