Each of the following possibilites has 6 different arrangements. We don't need to consider this to get the final answer.
If the largest number is 3, there is 1 possibility: (1,2,3).
If the largest number is 4, there are 3 possibilities: (1,2,4), (1,3,4), (2,3,4).
If the largest number is 5, there are 6 possibilities: (1,2,5), (1,3,5), (1,4,5), (2,3,5), (2,4,5), (3,4,5).
If the largest number is 6, there are 10 possibilities.
If the largest number is 7, there are 15 possibilities.
If the largest number is 8, there are 21 possibilities.
If the largest number is 9, there are 28 possibilities.
If the largest number is 10, thre are 36 possibilities.
To find the total number of possibilities, add: 1 + 3 + 6 + ... + 36 = sum1
Now, we need to find the sum of the value times the number of possibilities:
1 x 3 + 3 x 4 + 6 x 5 + 10 x 6 + ... + 36 x 10 = sum2
To find the expected value, divide sum2 by sum1.