Leaded you have a future of deceipt and most likely failure as well.
I suppose this can be turned around but since you are nearly an adult that is not likely to happen.
You are a self confessed cheat.
https://web2.0calc.com/questions/need-help-and-answer_2#r6
Wonderman is fighting an unwinnable battle and he is making himself very unpopular in the process.
But that does not mean that he is not right. Much of the time anyway.